Career advisors always talk about “networking,” but what exactly do they mean?
Ah, networking – that business buzzword with the notoriously bad rap. Except for a few fearless extroverts, most people are less than thrilled by the suggestion. They have the false impression that networking involves a lot of glad-handing and bogus shoptalk, which understandably turns them off.
But networking is actually a great way to build and strengthen social connections. And it’s important, since we all know that “what you know” and “who you know” are equally important tools. Done correctly, skilled networking engenders mutual respect and worthwhile interactions. Networked relationships often grown into lasting friendships and professional partnerships. The trick is learning how to master the art.
Where do I go to network?
Networking is like exercising. There’s an opportunity for it virtually everywhere you go, but the strongest networkers dedicate specific hours and seek out the ideal environments. Get in the habit of practicing both your short game and your long game. Short game networking might involve striking up a conversation in the grocery store, or mentioning your job search to your accountant/hair dresser/fitness coach – people who interact with many professionals throughout the day.
Long game networking is a bit trickier, and requires some finesse. Become a member of a professional organization. For a small membership fee, you can often access professional events or fundraisers, where other people in your industry gather and mingle. These meet-and-greets can be intimidating for beginner networkers, so bring a friend. He or she doesn’t have to share your professional interests, just a willingness to regroup with you throughout the evening so you don’t feel like you’re operating without – well, a net.
I don’t know how to talk to new people about what I do. Where do I start?
Networking is all about proportions. Like eating, drinking, and everything else that requires moderation, you shouldn’t attempt a networking binge in a single evening. Instead, start small and know your limits. Resolve to meet 3 or 4 new people at a given cocktail party. Strike up conversations and genuinely listen to what people are telling you. Don’t worry about filing people into categories of usefulness.
Another technique to master is the introductory approach. You can’t wait around for others to approach you, and you don’t want to rely exclusively on third party introductions. Get comfortable approaching others who appear to be flying solo. Most people are as self-conscious as you are, and they’ll appreciate a conversation partner. Alternate small talk and “big talk” questions. For example, you might start by asking a simple question about the present event (the food, the venue, etc), and lead into more pertinent queries about his or her line of work.
Now it’s time to talk about you. The key to marketing yourself without boring or confusing your audience is borrowing on strategies that work in advertising. Be engaging. Be relevant. You might even take the opportunity to tell a quick anecdote. As with television commercials, people are more inclined to remember stories than facts or concepts. Just make sure the story you’re telling provides a flattering depiction of you and your character.
For shorter conversations, business professionals also practice something known as the elevator pitch. It’s called that because it requires you to explain your work within the narrow timeframe of an elevator ride. People should be able to understand what you do, how you do it, and – ideally – how it’s unique, without a twenty minute dialogue and a PowerPoint presentation. The best way to test your pitch is to try it on someone who has no knowledge of your field. Try it on your Aunt Millie or your kids’ babysitter – they can help you to isolate where it’s confusing or incomplete.
I don’t want to waste other people’s time.
Good networkers understand that networking is a reciprocal activity. You’re not selling timeshares to tourists; you’re facilitating an exchange of ideas and information. If you present yourself as polished and poised, others will view you as a valuable contact, and they’ll be happy to have your ear for their own networking agendas.
Still, there are some people who are standoffish and unyielding. As a way of ensuring you’re not “barking up the wrong tree,” invite the other party to volunteer his or her information first. Introduce yourself and ask a few casual questions. How does he/she know the host? How is the economy affecting his/her line of work? By deferring the spotlight, you’ll accomplish several things. Firstly, you’ll learn something about your potential contact. Secondly, you won’t run the risk of sounding presumptuous or intense. Finally, you’ll have a few moments to mentally align your goals with the other person’s goals and interests. In that space, you may be able to volunteer a favor or a source of information (e.g. My good friend is a member at that golf course. He could arrange a round for you.) When you put something on the table first, contacts are more inclined to see you as an asset.
Networking seems like a waste of time—I don’t see results.
If you’re not seeing the results of your networking, you’re probably not following up on your newfound connections. Some experts argue that following up – in a timely and thorough manner – is the most important part of networking. And this makes sense if you think about it. After all, you could meet a million people, and none of them would help your career if you never spoke again.
Don’t rely on fate or the other person’s altruism to realign your paths. Send an email or make a phone call shortly after your meeting. Make your message more than a generic “nice meeting you,” by drawing on some key points of your conversation. If it makes sense to do so, extend an invitation for coffee.
Even after following up, “results” may not look like what you expect. Let’s say that after having coffee you still don’t have a career lead from this person. If the conversation went well, and you ended the meeting with plans to talk again, your networking was successful. You will have gained a colleague who welcomes your phone calls, and who adds his or her knowledge pool to your growing network.
Elizabeth O'Neill is earning an MFA in Creative Writing. She is a contributing writer at eLearners.com and GradSchools.com.
120 comment(s)
angela johnson On Tuesday, June 23 2009
help me to get where i need to be to,make life better for better jobs ext.
Jennifer Gascon On Thursday, June 25 2009
Just like Angela and maybe out those out they, I need more confidence and help so I do not give up to provide a better life not for myself, but for my children
nadia manderson On Sunday, June 28 2009
help me to get where i need to be righ now
denis4e thomas On Monday, June 29 2009
I need to know how to get what i need
Rebecca Dodds On Monday, June 29 2009
I just need that push, and someone on my butt to tell me to do it. : )
DARLENE ALEXANDER On Tuesday, June 30 2009
I NEED TO LEARN HOW TO LIVE FOR MYSELF AND NOT OTHERS
Iris Colmes On Wednesday, July 01 2009
I need to to locate the right environment that is a perfect match for talents and abilities that will empower others.
jessica On Sunday, July 05 2009
i have the drive and an associates degree in business, i need a way to get experience; like internships, so i can get a job
Kathleeen Sikes On Sunday, July 05 2009
I have several years in working in an office environment and a strong desire for an internship to get back into a field I enjoy.
Nyles Richardson On Monday, July 06 2009
I Thanks This an Efficent Way to revitalize my career and Get the rewarding job i always wanted.
Tamika Bryant On Tuesday, July 07 2009
Help me to get where I need to be in my life and achieved a goal I have set for myself, and get a better career.
Jeannette On Wednesday, July 08 2009
I need to get there...the tools that I need to get there are education and perseverance. I have one but I need to advance my education to be a good business manager of my own company.
renita Harris On Friday, July 10 2009
I need help with getting my self on the right track and with the right people.
Susan Backlin On Monday, July 13 2009
I have the experience in interoffice communications, as well as customer service. I have just moved to a new area, where I do not know that many people, and I need to meet some people that can help me get back on the right track in a healthcare job, facilitating me to go back to nursing school.
Pam Lane On Tuesday, July 14 2009
I really need to find others, who are older, like me, to give me some pointers on where to look for jobs in the criminal justice area. I have my Bachelor's in Criminal Justice and do not seem to know how to push myself or what direction to go in. I am currently a Case Manager at a private prison.
Imani Asante On Friday, July 24 2009
I wish to enter business,as a Research and Development. And become Veteran Rep. for the Veterans Administration
Elizabeth On Wednesday, July 29 2009
I would like to learn more about finances in order to get a job in that field and I can help people manage their finances.
Mrs. Joan M. Enering, R.N., BSN On Friday, July 31 2009
I know that net working is important. It is not a shame to be out of work, and ask for help. You never know where your next job contact could come from!
Talk to your neighbors, friends, co-workers.
Find out about new opportunities.
Mary On Friday, July 31 2009
I have been unemployed for awhile so I decided to go back to school this summer. I just got a job for 2dys 4hrs a day. I am about to loose my apartment me and my seventeen year old son. I WILL START BACK TO SCHOOL AUG 22. I NEED MORE HELP AND RESOURCES FINDING A JOB MAKING MORE THAN 8 DOLLARS AND HOUR ON THE WEEKEND MAYBE 12 HOURS AT 10 DOLLARS AND HOUR WHILE I GO TO SCHOOL. I AM 35 PURSUING MY ASSOCIATES DEGREE FOR NURSING
cliff amancio On Friday, July 31 2009
I just want to further my education so I can make more money for me my wife and my son.
Patricia A. Maynor On Friday, July 31 2009
I need the networking for motivation and encouragement during these challenging times. I believe with the right networking will allow me to maintain focus, endurance and preseverance. I'm determine that I will excell because I'm more than a conqueror. To God Be the Glory!
Lisa Pratt On Friday, July 31 2009
I need to learn to network to help me gain my self esteem and confidence back. Being unemoloyed for 8 months has taken a major toll on me. I could use some encouragement to help me keep pushing forward during this time.
kasha h On Saturday, August 01 2009
help me help myslef and make a better future,for me and my four boys that will give them the confidence,the need to grow up knowing that they can become doctors ,lawyer,wateva,it is they can do with the rite education.
Moniqua.Shekera On Monday, August 03 2009
I need to have a backup plan to update on my job career searching.
David diaz On Monday, August 03 2009
I need help also! i need to learn to network myself, and get my confidence level back.
Matthew A. Weaver On Monday, August 03 2009
I have problems saying what I mean to say. I would like a better way of communication.
Shelia Sawyer On Tuesday, August 04 2009
I need help also with knowing how to word what I want to sayand to build up my self esteem I and get my confidence back.
AJAYEOBA ADEDAYO MICHAEL On Wednesday, August 05 2009
this is a wonderful lifting message. keep it up. this made me to remember that the journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.
Tinisha On Friday, August 07 2009
I need to be more effective in what I am doing and improve myself
quanita On Saturday, August 08 2009
i need help in getting a good confidence level around other I also need help with myself esteem
Jackie On Monday, August 10 2009
I went back to school at the age of 52 and received my practical nursing license. I am now a caregiver for my husband,who has parkinsons and my mother who is 87 yrs young. I need a new avenue in nursing to work with my schedule at home and my physical limitations,so I have decided to try online learning to supplement our income and to keep myself in the medical field. It is less expensive and time consuming and that fits into my schedule. No matter what your age or limitations are you can always continue an education and apply it to your lives. In times like these we need to ask ourselves what is the best way to improve our lives and yet be able to afford it as well. To me online learning is a way to get around alot of expenses and it saves you time so you are able to commit to your other responsibilites. For those that have social problems, online makes it easier for you to get the confidence that will bring you thru and at the same time give you independence in your life. That first step can begin at any age..It is such a feeling of accomplishment and you do feel better about yourself
Michelle Chenchilly A. Retes On Tuesday, August 11 2009
Help me to be in the right track,have difficulty saying my emotions and ideas.Help me to provide a better life for myself and for my family
Myrtle On Tuesday, August 11 2009
It is never to late. I have an opportunity to change things in my life and people that need help. I know my calling is helping people. I would love to know how to master networking. What I learn and master I would spread the knowledge and it goes on and on and on.
keith w. finkton On Wednesday, August 12 2009
Iam a very articulate, yet shy person who has trouble socializing...I love to help others but at this point need help myself, please aid me on my journey to success.
Beverly D. Wright On Wednesday, August 12 2009
I'm a single mother trying to advance my career i need some direction on where to start and how i know by futhering my education and reaching out to people on the network will bring a positive influence to my kids just trying to make life easier and better for us.
Carol Beck On Thursday, August 13 2009
I'm a lifelong learner who enjoys helping people, and would gratefully receive any offer on networking. I will soon complete my M.S in Higher Education with Kaplan Unviersity and need to continue my education in writing and psychology.
Robert Elmore On Friday, August 14 2009
I am a restaurant Manager and I an trying to get into the Information Technology field. I have Army training in the IT field but can not get a start in the IT field with little experience.
Gerald Mercier On Saturday, August 15 2009
I currently have an associate degree in computer programming; however, I need to get some hands-on experiences in order to find a job in this field. Please, provide some help, thank you.
Diego Camacho On Sunday, August 16 2009
Nice article. It follows the well known technique for success: "Seek to understand (and give)before you seek to be understood (or be given to)." Thanks.
Kristie On Sunday, August 16 2009
I am here to look around and find out what happens.
TONYA D SIMMONS On Sunday, August 16 2009
IAM A SELF- PUBLISH AUTHOR WHO IS HOMELESS AND CARLESS WHO IS WORKING ON OTHER BOOKS.I WILL ALSO BE STARTING COLLEGE TO BE A PSYCOLOGIST, SO I SAY TO YOU BUT YOUR FAITH IN JESUS AND YOU CAN DO ANYTHING.
Carter N Stewart On Monday, August 17 2009
I am disabled and want to make a move forward to get out of the rut I am in financially in order to stand on my own, even if my body will not allow me to do so. I want my manhood back and a new career!
Annie On Thursday, August 20 2009
I am familiar with networking and how it works but being in unfamiliar territory, new surroundings, different state, different way of life it is difficult to acclimate. It is a struggle to find my niche. I have returned to school, with God's help, to pursue my career in OTA (occupational therapy assist) Financially it is an extreme challenge. I have managed, however, to maintain a focus on God and thank Him for the direction and provision. JESUS IS THE WAY!
Clelie Stone On Monday, August 24 2009
I have always been good at networking, if that's what you want to call it. I am outgoing and pretty comfortable meeting new people. However when it comes to selling myself I am not so comfortable. It sounds like bragging. Maybe that's why I don't get the job or whatever. My husband is a pastor and I am so thankful for all the places the Lord has sent us. When we move my husband is still a pastor and his job is still the same. He has to build trust in new relationships and all but he is essentially doing his same job. But for me it is different. I have to go find a new job and start over again. I am 41 and I am tired having to find a new job. I have networked and looked for jobs until I am blue in the face. Since I don't have a degree this effects how I think people see me. I mean to be honest, I know lots of people with degrees and jobs and they are certainly not the sharpest tools in the shed, and I see this and ask "Lord what is the deal?" I also know people who don't have degrees and have great jobs that they love. I know that networking with God is probably the single most important thing for me to do. I know that He will come through for me. It's in the believing and waiting that I falter. In the meantime, we've got to keep networking with the One who made this planet with all it's people and it's jobs, keep doing good and in due season we will reap a harvest. God bless, stay faithful.
Brenda On Tuesday, August 25 2009
I am for the lst time in my life without a job. I have worked in the legal field for over 25 years and very good at my job. Due to my age and length in the legal field I am not considered for a job; they either wants to place someone younger in the job or feel that with my experience I would demand too much money (I always indicate on the application that salary is negotiable). How do I portray to the employer that I would be a valuable asset to the business and not demand a large salary.
jewell harris On Tuesday, August 25 2009
I need someone to help me stay on the right track and how to word what i want to say and build up my self esteem.
victor On Saturday, August 29 2009
im very intrested in networking, but i think it's very challenging, i need some one to put me through it tecniues, so i can pass it to some other persons.
FRANK NAMEGABE On Sunday, August 30 2009
I'M VERY EXITED TO HAVE GOOD PEOPLE IN THIS COUNTRY LIKE YOU.IWOULD LIKE TO BE BLESSED BY TOO.THAT'S FOR LONG TIME I'M UNCAPABLE TO GO TO THE COLLEGE BUT GOD IS GREAT FOR YOU COMPASSION HEART.
ANGELA On Wednesday, September 02 2009
i LIKE TO NETWORK AND MEET NEW PEOPLE . I AM A BUSINESS PERSON.
sergio m montolio On Wednesday, September 02 2009
Love networking, always open and available to meet people. please advice.
Maria Jose Arana On Wednesday, September 02 2009
I just recently moved to Jacksonville.
I have a Master's in Mental Health Counseling and unemployed. Getting my Florida License is going to take me a while.
In the meantime I am looking for employment.
Anyone there knows of something?
Nicky Thomas On Thursday, September 03 2009
I am a C.N.A and now working on pre-classes to become an L.P.N so that I can transfor to an 4 year university to become an peditrian
stephen borowski On Thursday, September 03 2009
I need to start networking and don't know how please explain whats the best course to take
Claudia On Friday, September 04 2009
I've been working for collection agency right after I graduated from high school. Thinking that the pay was great, but realized with a degree the pay can be better!
Ramona On Friday, September 04 2009
I know the way to obtain financial freedon is by knowing how to network, but i'm so bad at it. I freeze and i stutter. Could this be due to not having any self confidence that what i have to say is worth everyone to listen? What i have to say is worth every one to listen, but why can't i convey that?
tonie On Saturday, September 05 2009
I HAVE ONLY RETAIL EXP . WORK . I HOPE IM NOT TAKING ON TO MUCH AT ONE TIME
Deborah Brown On Monday, September 07 2009
I am an older female who is in an Human Services MS degree program, I have not worked in several years due to aging parents and now am ready to resume my career at age 57. If I can continue to pursue my educational and professional goals anyone can do it. Stay strong and actualize your dreams, in Jesus all things are possible.
Deborah Brown
Tenisha griffin On Monday, September 07 2009
I am a 22 year old female who will be attending holmes community college in the spring for business i work at a daycare and that is some place i dont want to be im trying to move out on my own i cant afford it because i dont make nuch money at work
Elizabeth Thomas On Monday, September 07 2009
I had to go on disability six years ago following an accident and miss working terribly. In addition, I need the income. I would love to find work from home using my writing skills and other computer skills that are far above average.
Carrie M. On Tuesday, September 08 2009
I had a really bad car accident in October 2006, and almost lost my life. To be able to work helping people is a big important factor in my life.
Trevor Couch On Wednesday, September 09 2009
Net working is accualy very easy especially in a small town like mine because word gets around quickly.
Alisha On Wednesday, September 09 2009
i really appreciatee the oppurtunity
Jhnsn9654 On Thursday, September 10 2009
I love to draw and want to build a career in design and archtiecture. Im 18, a young female lady. I dont know how to really network and need much much help. Im also trying to go to school.
Pat On Sunday, September 13 2009
I'm 45 years old and I Think I know what I want to be when I grow up. If it turns out I'm wrong, again, and for the third time, it's ok, as long as I complete my education this time. I have an undiagnosed and yet to be recognized and categorized learning and growing disability. My life expectancy will probably be cut short but I won't know for certain until I am accurately diagnosed. In the meantime, I need a Life Mentor and math coach. Without those, I will never graduate from college nor grow into a productive adult. Between 1981 and 2007, I have unsuccessfully attended 6 colleges/universities across the country, have achieved 30-60? Undergrad credits and I have been unemployed since 12/31/2008. My income potential / level was 6 figures before I was "laid-off". Thank You!
katie On Monday, September 14 2009
i want to learn more
janis mousa On Tuesday, September 15 2009
Mrs. Joan M. Enering, R.N., BSN
Joan,
Where do you live? Are you willing to relocate? There are so many job search engines on the internet, I am sure that you can find a job.
Janis Mousa, RN, BSN
Janis Patty On Tuesday, September 15 2009
I have a phobia about driving. this limits my ability to work outside of the city where I live. I have gone to therapy for 14 years. I have tried multiple self help tapes.
SUZE On Tuesday, September 15 2009
Nothing wrong in networking, I like it and it will help you to meet people and more.
Cynthia Anthony On Tuesday, September 15 2009
I enjoy networking,You can find people who are on the same path as your are or even further who can help get where you want to be.
rudolph v. mayers On Wednesday, September 16 2009
How do I get to a networking company for guidance.
wendell rogers On Wednesday, September 16 2009
i have done a little bit of rebuilding computers so now i want to learn how to connect them to other computers
Jennifer Luu On Monday, September 21 2009
I just need help getting in contact with the right people to help me along in earning my Bachelor's degree.
darrel ward booth On Tuesday, September 22 2009
thank you
Jonathon On Wednesday, September 23 2009
My son needs to find the time networking. He is currently working and going to school part time to help me(his mom) who is disabled. I feel that he is need doing as well in school as he could because he puts as many work hours as possible. My son also has ADD and fails to take advantage of the learning help he can receive.
Thank You,
J
mom with cerebellar atrophy/ataxia
Dalia G On Wednesday, September 23 2009
I have my degree in Business since 2006 and never worked in that field. its like everyone wants experience but where do we get it if no one give us a chance. It's like a roller coaster with jobs.too much education or not enough education. So where do we go or how we can get the job that we want?
Kivya On Friday, September 25 2009
I like to meet people and sometimes it is hard because you don't always know what to say. I can write but talking is going to take more work and more practice
francisca On Friday, October 02 2009
I lived for my children, husband and family and I forgot about me, now they can not help me to find myself, because they are busy themselves with their live, dentist assistant, tool maker, cna and a sailor, I also need to have self esteem to pick up the pieces, one of the reason I moved to Tampa, but the jobs here a not hiring, what else can I do?
alberta On Friday, October 02 2009
I have worked hard at home on getting my certificate in Medical Office Assistant, plus work out of the home. I got the certificate but now can't find a job- because they say it is not an accredited college certificate.
Wanda Cannon Stacy On Friday, October 02 2009
I am a recent college graduate with a BS in Business Administration and a minor in Law. I am looking to get into to politics and law. I have over 20 years of customer service experience and would like to participate in some type of internship and or volunteer program that would lead to networking. I need some experience in law, management and politics.
Sandra Latimore On Saturday, October 03 2009
I want to connect with people who have already achieved their dreams, so that I can learn and make the necessary changes in my life for me to become successful.
Rose Stanislaus On Monday, October 05 2009
I want to connect with people who can mentor me and encourage me to be the best that I can be.
Bernard Dahilig On Monday, October 05 2009
I have done so by the networks that I know within my professional network circle, but in doing so, especially in the Culinary field and I assume it is the same with all markets, that though we submit our names and information to our colleagues, and they(our colleagues) can only do so much to help in our cause, and with the current economic turn down which is no where in sight ending soon, it is an employers market presently; no matter how goof your resume looks, you have tons of work experience in your field of choice, and making follow up calls with no response or even little, can be very frustrating and you do the cycle over and you have the same response - NOTHING. I and a lot of individuals like myself need all the help that we can get!
Aquanetta Speight-Thomas On Wednesday, October 07 2009
To Jackie:I to went back to school at the age of 54 and ready to do it again for my AA degree in Healthcare Administration(I'm a Healthcare Reimbursment Specialist-I'm a independent contractor with a small mental health clinic, and yes for those who did not go back to school to futher their career may want to re-think thier options.This holds true for those who are over 45 and have at least 20+ years or experience.Being self-employed is quite rewarding because you call the shots and know how large a income you want to achive in a short amount of time.
To Tonya: I recieved my CEU(continuing education units)in a shelter and was able to humble myself in the presents of God and you will be surprised at the blessing one can obtain:keep writing and I will say a prayer to up left and inspire.
To Maria:For employment try your small healthcare clinics in your area and let then know you are working on your lisences for the state of Florida.
I would love to answer more as far as the comments are concern but guess what I am in your corner and please keep the faith.
Montrey (Lane) Suddeth On Thursday, October 08 2009
I want to start a safe haven for battered women and troubled teens so I'd like to connect with people who can mentor with me and point me in the direction I need to start in.
Jeff Luchesi On Tuesday, October 13 2009
I am a surviver of troubeld teen homeless and child abuse.
help in this sitition is a long term method of consistant and persistant care and understanding. I could only offer advice for immediate but tempory advice for safe heavens. your local YMCA,Churches and WMCA. These places usually can direct you into long term save heaven.
vilma perez On Wednesday, October 14 2009
i am a 31 year old female who is a mother to a 10 month old beautiful little girl. i have a great desire to go back to school and continue my education for the sake of my daughters future and mine. i have a great weakness, i am shy and therefor i donot have many friends i need help in trying to get over this hertle.
a ali On Thursday, October 15 2009
Great discussion...I like networkin...if u r younger than 35 u can drop me a line...
C SOUVANDY On Friday, October 16 2009
i 'LL BEE 55 YEARS OLD IN 6 MORE YEARS.
i WANTED TO DO SOMETHINGS ELSE WITH MY LIEE, THAT IS WHY I WANTED TO GET A DEGREE AND START A NEW PATH OF MAKING A LIVING.
Maureen Mignault On Monday, October 19 2009
I have returned to school at 53 years old and I am very happy that I made that decision. I am studying for a Bachelor's Degree in Business Administration. I have heard about networking and would like so more information. I am currently unemployed. I have applied for many jobs since I have been out of work and the problems is there are a million people in my same position. What can I do?
Claire Maher On Monday, October 19 2009
I'm thought I'd network right now by posting this comment! Any auggestions about which professional organizations to join, and any websites that help in this endeavor? cmaher77@yahoo.com
Ayanna On Wednesday, October 21 2009
This is really something I have been dreaming to do but can't afford the schooling,please help!
ambreen On Wednesday, October 21 2009
i want to climb a ladder to get to the top but itsvery foggy to locate one.
Ernest On Thursday, October 22 2009
I am thankful for the opportunity to further my education.
Alex Trice On Tuesday, October 27 2009
I am really thankful!
Rigoberto de la Paz On Wednesday, October 28 2009
I am full of hope now!
Lean L. Beaumont On Thursday, October 29 2009
I need help... Help me to get where I need to be righ now
Roeshona Anderson On Thursday, October 29 2009
I just want a chance to further my education
Adeline On Thursday, October 29 2009
I just need connection with the right people of where I can find jobs in the medical and billing coding. Also if there are any groups in medical billing and coding seminars or conference.
Dennis On Thursday, October 29 2009
I have been a Quality Engineer in the manufacturing sector. I can't find a job. I would appreciate any advice. Being out of work for 5 month's takes a toll on your self worth and confidence.
Carmen Shakira Martinez On Friday, October 30 2009
Hi,
I will love to go to any College around Sanford, Lake Mary, Longwood area, to become a Grooming, Photograpy for animals, anything to work with Pets.
Many Thanks,
Carmen Shakira Martinez
321.275.8021
321.279.2352
Steve Dalton Dalmida On Friday, October 30 2009
Hi! I'm a New Yorker
I've just made a decision to go back to college to complete a masters degree in psychology and hopefully move on to a doctorate. I'm 51 and would like advice or encouragement from anyone who have been in the same position.
sdalmida57@gmail.com
LM.ARUNACHALAM--LMA On Friday, October 30 2009
i am very-well-educated and a poet. however i certified to work as the 'gusrd-officer' in arizona;
because, not very many opportunities around me.Now,
i am interested to 'redo' my
education and also 'to-work'.....
'one of the best ways of training a person in life is to
put him/her into practice...'
idris On Wednesday, November 18 2009
i will be very happy if my help and support is successful consider.
pauline On Wednesday, November 18 2009
I've read some of your messages on the message board and its gonna be okay,stop beating yourselves up and know this what we can't see GOD see and he's fixing it all we have 2 do is believe I know 4 some its hard considering the circumstances but remember theres noyhing 2 hard 4 my GOD and in everything b 4 u jump into your circumstance make sure u cosult with GOD first and see what his will is 4 your life and u can't fail as long as GODs hands is in it because what GOD has 4 u is 4 u and nobody ELSE SO KEEP THE FAITH and I will be praying for u.
joann rascoe On Wednesday, November 18 2009
i need a lot encouragement to get the education
J.D. Sanchez On Thursday, November 19 2009
MY FAMILY AND I WILL HAVE SOME WEIGHT LIFTED OFF OUR SHOULDERS. WE WILL BE ABLE TO SEE SOME LIGHT AT THE END OF THIS TUNNEL. THEN ALL OF US HERE WILL LIFT OUR HEADS HIGH AND BE THANKFUL.
Cheryl Aikman On Thursday, November 19 2009
I have been reading all these comments and I don't feel quite as isolated in my lack of employment. It makes me realize that maybe I'm not a complete failure that nobody needs or wants. On the other hand it scares me even more about just how many people are dealing with the same problem as I am. I am 50 and it does seemm to make a difference when I apply for positions. I do have a Bachelors degree in Psychology and experience in the healthcare industry. I also have 2 other barriers to employment- the first is credit-during these hard economic times my husbands painting and remodeling business went "belly-up". the second one is embarassing (to say the least) I have an adjudicated class C Felony (in 1992)for failing to report my alcoholic husbands new job(fearing he would Quit or be fired AGAIN)-I finished 5 years of probation and made restitution as required. I did manage to get my degree during that time with 3 young sons to take care of. These things are hindering my employment. I would like some advice about how to overcome these barriers: age,credit,and an almost 20 year old offense? Does anyone out there know where I might find a place to work that will not hold these things against me? If I could just get an interview i have the experience working with children and individuals with developmental disabilities and chronic illness and emotional disturbances AND I am very good at what I doAND I am a very hard worker. If somebody will just give me a chance in Dallas,Texas. HELP ME PLEASE!!!
David A Collins On Thursday, November 19 2009
To Joann Rascoe.The best way to encourage yourself,first,is to find out,why you need someone to encourage you.second,what is the level of your self-esteem,motivation,and how secure you are with yourself.Thrid,what are you afraid of,The colleges,people,the materail,classes,achieving,sucess,or is it failure,don't allow your emagination run wild, keep them in check and forth,give yourself,a self encouragement excercise,for example encourage yourself to do something that is less threating,like take a walk thru a college campus,and have lunch,all by your lonely self.repeat same steps in two days,and talk to people,by asking them question about the college an courses.repeat same steps,but at another college or university,so that way you can get a different feeling.These excercise,will help to encourage you,help you to feel more comfortable confident and impower yourself.Email me,to let me know how you did.Joann,always learn how to that the time,to evaluate yourself,at least once every six months,by checking your source of strenth and weaknesses,and then when you find a mentor,not to encourage you or empower you.but to add on,to that what you already astablish all on your own.Thank you.
Bernard(Pure-P)Williams On Friday, November 20 2009
Knowledge is king,learning is queen and without both there is no meaning.
William T. George On Saturday, November 21 2009
It is important I communicate with people in the legal field who has already reached their goal.
margaret milstead On Monday, November 23 2009
i want to get in the legal field because i think it is right to help people with there legal problems and make things right
ROCIO On Monday, November 23 2009
hi my name is Rocio single mother Im traing to work for network to do somthin in the house so i can have extra income because i lost my job i wen to a conference but the only problem i have is the money how i can get help so i can put some money and start working from home so i can support my daugther? her father pass the way and the onli oncome we recive now is social security were can i go to find some money?
JoAnne On Monday, November 23 2009
I just don't have the money to attend college to enroll in the physical therapy assistant program. I so desire to help people achieve better mental and physical health and flexibility than they possessed before they were injured. I am compassionate, hard working, and possess the tenacity of youth and hope that someone can help me find grants, scholarships or free money to achieve this dream.
Bob Stedronsky On Monday, November 23 2009
I am looking to network with open minded people looking to create a secondary income with an e-commerce based business. Please let me know if you would like to learn some more information.
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Mari On Sunday, December 06 2009
I'm looking to network with people in Hawaii who want to help themselves & others achieve their dreams during these challenging times of job loss, lay offs, financial stress, loosing their homes etc. There is hope & it starts with YOU taking this next step.
Larry Grant On Monday, December 07 2009
I am looking for a job where I can use my experience. I have loss my teaching job. I donot have the money to pay my bills or complete my masters. I teach social studies and coach basketball to middle school kids. I need information on jobs, scholarships and grants.Thanks
D. Castelow On Sunday, December 13 2009
You are never to old to learning, but sometimes there are instances where you are to old to practice what you know. I'd perfer to be able to learn and earn, and enjoy the fruits of my labor of learning
Carltina Johnson On Wednesday, December 23 2009
I need something to improve me and my life because I have limited far too long.
John Robertson On Wednesday, December 30 2009
Over the years my interest in Photography and Graphic webdesign/banners and logo's have grown to the point i need help in learning more about so i can earn a better living and grow in these fields, So am hoping to network with others and find ways to go back to school to achieve my goals
Sharon Wood On Wednesday, December 30 2009
I am starting over after divorce, layoffs, and health problems. I need to find a job but am having trouble due to the credit report requirements now in force (divorce!). I am hoping to network for new friends and encouragement. I am currently working on my MBA and doing well.